Your Behavior Breakthrough to a Happy, Emotionally Healthy Family!
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INTRODUCING…
A comprehensive parenting academy and support group designed to help you end challenging behaviors (and feel good about being a parent again!)
The HEART-STRONG Parent Academy is designed to help you create a happy and emotionally healthy family by ending meltdowns and other fear-based behaviors with compassion and connection, so that everyone in the family feels safe, loved, happy, and successful!
DOES YOUR CHILD HAVE ANY OF THESE CHALLENGING BEHAVIORS?
- Refuse to comply with your rules or even simple requests?
- Get angry and upset out of proportion to stress, difficulty, or challenges?
- Exhibit frequent shut downs, meltdowns, and episodes of aggression?
- Have anxiety that interferes with activities, school, and family time?
- Control everyone in the house so that you are walking on eggshells?
- Whine, complain, cry, sulk, get angry often?
- Have difficulties at school, especially with homework?
- Leave you feeling overwhelmed and exhausted from control battles?
- Lie, steal, bully others, or have food issues?
DO YOU FEEL LIKE:
- You’ve tried everything to figure out how to get the out-of-control behaviors to stop. Yet…there has been so little progress from your efforts.
- There are so many incidents of defiance, rage, explosive and aggressive meltdowns. And…so FEW times when you actually ENJOY being a parent.
- Your family time is full of so much chaos! Things are getting harder every day, and your patience is in short supply.
- You are walking on eggshells trying to keep the peace, and you’re doing everything you can just to hold it together between behavior episodes.
- You’re exhausted, discouraged, and at your wits’ end looking for solutions…. and at this point, you’re just not sure how much longer you and your family can keep going on this way.
- You’ve read books, joined the online groups, maybe even listened to trainings or attended conferences, but when it comes to the day-to-day conflict in your home, you feel lost and confused about how to stop the chaos.
- You believe in a positive parenting approach and really WANT to connect with your child, but right now, it’s a struggle to even be in the same room… so you escape whenever you can – locking yourself in the bathroom and just hoping with every tired cell of your body that your child won’t follow you there…. so you can get even just a moment of peace and calm.
- Behaviors are spiraling out of control – your child is having frequent and often intense episodes of anxiety, anger and sometimes even aggression. Sometimes you don’t even feel safe in your own home.
ARE YOU READY TO:
- Effectively end meltdowns, rages, and defiance… with compassion and connection.
- Create more peace and calm and reduce the need for crisis intervention.
- Create a strong and effective safety plan, self care plan, and support plan.
- Address “distress call” behaviors by meeting needs, teaching skills, and solving problems.
- Prevent rage, aggression and defiance with a proven, practical system.
- Prevent a need for extended respite care or residential treatment.
- Teach kids how to solve problems and develop emotional resilience.
- Use effective communication to gain trust and cooperation as a family.
- Create a strong connection with your child.
- Rekindle your hope and confidence.
- Build a peaceful, happy home.
- Build deeper trust and empathy.
- Enjoy being a parent again!
YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE!
I want you to know that being more strict, using more rewards and consequences, or trying to control your child isn’t the answer.
The answer is a RADICAL shift in how you communicate and connect.
That means everywhere, in every situation. In everything from your how you ask your child to help clear the table… to talks about screen time and homework.
There is a different way to parent a child with complex developmental trauma, anxiety, and other challenges with emotional regulation and behavior.
This is NOT the end of your story… it’s just the beginning!
Your child CAN heal and grow.
Don’t listen to people who tell you that kids with behavior challenges associated with anxiety, attachment and trauma can’t ever heal.
It is absolutely possible for YOUR family to find peace, growth, and healing.
You just need the right tools and support to guide you.
When you understand how to communicate with compassion and build a solid connection, your mindset and confidence as a parent will surge back up to meet you.
You’ll realize that the influence you have IS truly transformational.
You’ll realize that it’s worth so much to your child and to your family… and you’ll start communicating that way more and more each day. You’ll start seeing transformation happen right before your eyes.
The BEST part about this?
It’s not just about transforming trauma in your child, it’s about trauma transforming in YOU.
You CAN do this. You really do have the power to transform trauma!
That’s exactly why I created the HEART-STRONG™ Parenting Program.
THE PERFECTLY CRAFTED PROGRAM FOR PARENTS WHO WANT MORE HOPE, HEALING, AND A HAPPY FAMILY
To help your child grow and heal from trauma and anxiety, taking another workshop, posting questions in a Facebook group, or reading another parenting book is not enough.
You need a program that’s comprehensive and inclusive to facilitate real change and real results.
The HEART-STRONG Parent Academy offers:
A Proven and Easy-to-Follow System
I have taken the confusing aspects of supporting a child with anxiety, trauma, or other mental health challenges and turned them into a step-by-step, proven system of growth and healing you can easily follow. Many families who have used these methods have seen a reduction in the length, intensity, and frequency of challenging behaviors in a matter of DAYS instead of months or years!
While other program focus on theories about the brain and trauma but don’t give you a lot of practical, in-the-trenches advice about real behavior challenges, I use a proven process to support growth that has worked for every family that has enrolled to date, and I’m certain will also work for you.
YOU’LL GET: The systems, strategies, and support plans you need to create a safe environment for everyone in the family so that you can build loving connections.
HEART-STRONG Parent Academy – how does it work?
The HEART-STRONG™ Parenting Program is a 6- month transformational program combining all of my best trainings, coaching, and community support.
Parents who enroll in this program will have all the tools they need to make massive transformation and positive changes in their family so that they can move more effectively on the journey to rapid post-traumatic growth and healing.
When you enroll in the HEART-STRONG™ Program, here is what you will get:
PHASE ONE (3 months):
Family FLIGHT Plan (lifetime access)
Includes these components:
Family FLIGHT Plan: 7 audio training modules & an accompanying PDF workbook
These prerecorded trainings contain all of my BEST proven, practical strategies for parenting kids with developmental trauma. You will learn how to implement compassionate, connected parenting techniques. You’ll also create your safety plan, self care plan, strategies, and support plan that are individualized to your own unique family needs. Parents who have used the Family FLIGHT Plan in the past have told me that the getting their safety plan in place alone is worth the cost of the entire program! But there is so much more waiting for you to learn and apply, and I’m going to walk you through each module step by step.
VIP Community Membership (6 months included)
The VIP Community is an intimate support group and group coaching program for parents who have completed the Bootcamp and are 100% committed to compassionate, connected parenting. In this group they will expand their knowledge, learn new techniques, and have the support and accountability to maintain a safety and self-care plan.
VIP Community Members typically meet twice a month for group Q&A coaching calls. If you are busy that day, you can post questions ahead of time and listen to the recording later. There is also a private members-only Facebook group where you can post questions, celebrations, or inspiration for other members 24/7. There’s almost always someone available online in VIP to cheer you on (or cheer you up)!
The VIP Community (for Very Inspiring Parents) includes…
A private Facebook Group community and support group.
Two live Q&A Coaching Calls per month
Questions and recordings are posted in the VIP Community Facebook group to review and for anyone who cannot attend the live sessions.
What parents are saying about the VIP Community:
The VIP Community is great! We share the good, bad, and ugly, and get input in all the above. It’s so nice to have call in Q&A, because we have specific questions answered by a parent coach (Sandi) that knows from experience. Q&A is also beneficial to me because other mamas usually ask a question that is either one I also am looking for the answer for as well, or know it most likely will come in the future. Join us!! – K.P.
Love the VIP group! It’s great to chat with other moms who “get it”, be able to ask and discuss specific problems, and the book club part is really helpful, too. The chosen books are so relevant! – J.R.
I love it over there (in the VIP Community)! Wasn’t planning on staying after my membership ended because I didn’t think I could afford it, but I can’t afford NOT to. The coaching and calls help me to remember to connect and I feel more confident in myself as a momma. – S.L.
BONUS! Peaceful Mama Masterclass: 3 recordings + PDF Workbook
Tools and strategies for staying CALM in the midst of the chaos! When you are calm and regulated, your child will learn regulation by mirroring and modeling you. Learning these strategies will help you develop the peace and patience you need to develop a strong and loving connection with your child.
PHASE TWO (3 months):
HEART-STRONG Parenting Program (3 months)
(12 modules – lifetime access)
Includes 12 recorded modules of training with written notes to accompany each recording.
This gives parents an opportunity for learning and application of all the new parenting paradigms, principles and practices. This will help you get specific answers to many of the most comment parenting challenges at each stage of growth and healing.
The Spiraling Stages of Growth
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Regulation (Modules 1,2)
Relationship (Modules 3,4)
Reciprocity (Modules 5,6)
Resilience (Modules 7,8)
***FOUR BONUS MODULES: Special Topics for Parenting Kids with Trauma***
Digital Parenting (Module 9)
Games and phones and screens – oh my! …
Calm in the Car (Module 10)
Getting to and from events and appointments without losing your mind or having a wreck…
Talking about Our Bodies (Module 11)
Talking to your child about hygiene, nutrition/food, body safety, and as they grow… puberty, sex, and dating.
Getting Others On Board with HEART-STRONG™ Parenting (Module 12)
Talking to your significant other/spouse, family members, neighbors, professionals, and people in shared public spaces about how (and why) you parent your child this way and enlisting their support.
All The Things
– 22 pre-recorded trainings
– workbooks and printable PDFs
– tools and worksheets
– Community of other HEART-STRONG parents for support
– Bi-weekly live Q&A calls
– Lifetime access to training materials
Helping your child and family transform can seem overwhelming at first.
Which is why the program is divided into two simple phases.
Think of it like building a spiral staircase!
PHASE ONE – Family FLIGHT Plan
Family Love Inspiring Growth and Healing Transformation
This program will teach you all the basics you need to know to plan for success and respond with compassion and connection to transform how you communicate with your family.
This is about having radical empathy and acceptance that wins your child’s heart so that they WANT to make changes in their behavior instead of being FORCED into compliance with consequences, threats, or bribes.
The Family FLIGHT Plan includes exercises, worksheets, guidance and live mentorship to help you stay calm, build a connection, and communicate collaboratively in ways that will help your child grow in empathy and cooperation.
This is the solid foundation upon which your family’s health and wellness is built.
PHASE TWO – HEART-STRONG PARENTING PROGRAM
Once your foundation is in place, you will begin to move up the Spiraling Stages of Growth. You’ll start to see small improvements in your child’s emotional regulation, then you will see massive changes in the way your family members are interacting.
This is about what it would feel like to be able to have a calm, thoughtful CONVERSATION with your child to solve problems together instead of having a daily battle of the wills.
This is the best and fasted way to growth and healing!
It’s during this phase that you will begin to use your Family FLIGHT Plan consistently and learn all the practical tools and systems for gaining trust, cooperation, and family cohesion.
This isn’t the typical “read this parenting book, then you’re on your own” type of program.
This is a roll up-your-sleeves, in-the-trenches program for parents who are committed to supporting their children’s growth and healing and who want to see massive progress THIS YEAR!
What you really need, mom, is a proven parenting system and support! Ditch the overwhelm, pass on the analysis paralysis, stop posting questions endlessly in Facebook groups!
We’ll work together to root our your individual family challenges, overcome your fears, and get you on the right healing path so you can end challenging behaviors and create the loving family you’ve always wanted… while supporting you to be the best parent you can be!
SUMMARY OF EVERYTHING YOU GET
You’ve read all the details of how the program works to grow your family to happy and emotionally healthy.
Community (Private VIP Facebook Group)
It’s hard to change your life when you’re surrounded by people who don’t know what it’s like. Our students join a worldwide community of parents on the same path so that your family dreams won’t be laughed at, doubted, or made small.
We have been in your shoes. Your dreams for your child and every effort you make towards creating a more loving connection will be supported, inspired, and achieved daily.
Six Month Access to Bi-Weekly Live Q&A Calls
Submit your questions in advance and we’ll take all the questions in order in which they were entered. If you can’t show up live, you’ll get access to the replay.
Then, when you’ve done the work, show up for the community because you’ll have nothing but success stories to share!
After your six months’ membership is completed, you can renew your membership for as long as you want to continue being a part of this dedicated and supportive community of “Olympic Level Parents”.
Lifetime Access to the Curriculum
If you focus, commit and manage your time, listen to all of the pre-recorded trainings, and implement the systems and strategies consistently, you should see a reduction of challenging behaviors in the first few weeks, and massive growth and healing by the end of 6 months.
However, we know life happens, so can do this at your own pace as you’ll have access to the online curriculum for life, and benefit from ongoing updates as new ideas and strategies become available.
You will also have lifetime access to any upgrades and additions to the program.
FAST ACTION BONUS
One 60-Minute Coaching Call with Sandi
Book your 60-minute coaching session with Sandi within 3 months of enrolling, after you have completed the Family FLIGHT Plan.
We’ll get on a private call and work together on whatever you need help with the most in your parenting.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Q: What kind of parent is this for?
This is for parents who are committed to supporting their children with a compassionate, non-punitive approach. We will use collaborative problem solving methods that are child-focused, promote active communication, and teach higher-level thinking skills to promote autonomy and interdependence. If you believe that fear-based parenting systems that rely heavily on rewards, consequences, and strict control, this is not the right program for you.
Q: How much time will I need to spend on the program?
If you are focused and committed, you can complete the curriculum in 6 months. Life happens though, so we offer lifetime access to the program, including the calls. Since you have lifetime access you can go at your own pace. You never run out of support and the modules are always there for you. Its always better to take baby steps toward a goal than to not walk toward it at all.
Q: Will Sandi be available to me to answer questions?
YES! Sandi is on all of the Live Q&A calls and if you enroll with the Fast Action Bonus, you’ll receive another private call. You’ll also see her in the Facebook community.
Q: I am not sure this will work for my family. Are you sure I can do this?
YES! Sandi has worked with parents with so many challenges, and all of them have seen growth and healing in their families. You don’t need to be a perfect parent. All you need is a growth mindset, willingness to learn and commitment to follow the process. Move through the curriculum, do the work, show up for the Live Q&A calls and you will make progress towards your goal of a happy and emotionally healthy family!
Q: I’ve already struggled with my child for so long, how will this help me?
This program was made to take you from chaos to collaboration and cooperation. If you’re still struggling, most likely you just need someone to help you find the right safety plan, support plan, or strategies that will work for your individual family situation.
Q: My child is a teenager, is it too late for us to have growth and healing?
It’s never too late! Sandi has worked with parents of young children to older teens and young adults.
Q: I’m scared to invest in a parenting program if I’m not sure it will work for my family.
When you invest in this program, you are making a commitment to yourself and your family to get on the path of growth and healing. If you don’t find a way to get out of the chaos and control battles, how much will you end up spending on other therapies and treatments?
Before deciding on whether you are ready for an investment in parent training and coaching to bring more safety, peace, love, and healing to your whole family, here are some other common family investment costs to consider:
Mental health residential treatment center: $42,000 or more for 6 months
($7,000 – 12,000 per month)
In-state college tuition: $36,000 (four year degree)
New mid-size SUV: $33,000
Remodel kitchen: $22,000
Build a deck: $7,000
Disney vacation for family of four: $6500
Private summer camp (six weeks + travel): $5400
In-home parent coaching (two days + coach travel expenses): $4800
New family pet (purchase, vet, grooming, food for three years): $4200
Computer – MacBook Pro Laptop + Laser Printer – $3400
Some other thoughts….
How much is it costing you right now to take time off of work to handle your child’s behaviors and mental health needs and all the appointments for services that aren’t helping very much?
What is it costing you in time, money, health and lost energy to put off dealing with ongoing behavior challenges that drain and deplete you?
If you don’t get help now, what will you do if things get worse and your child is so out of control that you can’t handle the behaviors? Will you seek residential treatment, or worse, give up parental custody to the state because you can’t afford it?
Wouldn’t you rather spend even just a small portion of the college, vacation, or kitchen remodel money you’ve been saving on something that will TRANSFORM your family relationships and promote growth and healing…. so that you can actually enjoy the time you spend together in the kitchen or on vacation?
And most importantly….
How much is having a good relationship with your child and a peaceful, happy, healthy family worth to you?
Q: I’ve still got questions, can I contact you?
Yes, of course! Get in touch via email at support@WingBuilder.com
The HEART-STRONG PARENT ACADEMY is the only comprehensive program to help you end challenging behaviors and create a strong connection with your child so that everyone in the family feels safe, loved, happy, and successful.
*PAY IN FULL: $997 (Special information below for 2-parent families)
PAYMENT PLAN
Pay $397 now, then two additional payments of $397 (months 2 and 4).
Special Information for 2-parent families:
You are welcome to share the materials with any other parent or adult caregiver living in your home. However, if there is a second parent or caregiver who would like to join the VIP Community, there is an additional fee of $497 for the second parent.
Second parent VIP Membership: $497
Note: Many participants choose to continue their VIP Community membership after the end of 6 months. The renewal membership fee is currently $99/month, payable in 3-month installments.
Backed by a 30-Day Risk-Free Money Back Guarantee:
Try the HEART-STRONG Parent Academy risk free. If after working through the program materials and completing the coursework for the first 30 days you decide this program isn’t for you, then let me know and receive a full refund.
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I look forward to seeing you in the HEART-STRONG Parent Academy!
Questions? Reach out to Support@WingBuilder.com